One
principle that I hold dear is this; That one should edify others with his
words. Or, in the wise words of Thumper,
“If you don’t have anything nice to say, don’t say anything at all.”
Edifying
people with your words does not mean giving shallow compliments or half-hearted
greetings, but speaking with love and kindness.
To edify someone with your words, you must be genuine. This means that you can not talk down to
someone (or about them for that matter), but instead whole-heartedly build them
up with truths and love. This practice
isn’t something that you go out of your way to do, but rather a constant love
for others shown in your words.
This
basic principle of kindness was taught to me at a young age. My mother would often scold me saying,
“Ellen, what does Thumper say?” As I
grew older, though, I learned that a bunny can have some good things to say.
When people say
hurtful things to you, their words can cut like knives, even if no pain was
intended. If you make a constant effort
to edify others, you won’t run into the sticky situation of accidentally
hurting people’s feelings. But moreover,
it is important to build each other up, not only to be kind, but so that we
honor God. ( Romans 14:14-21 and 1 Thessalonians 5:11)
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